Energy Play

Mind Blowing Sex on a Spiritual Level

I thought I would write this post in order to discuss what exactly astral sex is and some basic safety tips and hacks.
By no means do I claim to be an expert these are just experiences and the advice I offer on them.

What is astral sex or energy play?
Astral sex or energy play is where your soul and someone else’s make love, kink, or play in the astral realms. This is a whole new experience if you have never done it you’re missing out! I personal prefer energy play before I meet a potential because it gives me a deeper connection which I need and require from anyone i have any interest in whether friend, kinkster, dom, or submissive, or seeking mentor ship from me.

Things to consider before you decide to astral:
Meditate before you play, seriously a calm relaxed mind is important you are after going to be connecting on a psychic level.
Balance your chakras BEFORE and AFTER you play- chakras are energy wheels they are important to balance because they can cause many blocks in your life and you would never know it also keeps your vibes, bright and strong. There;s so many benefits to a chakra balance.

SHIELD- keep your energy protected at all times by envisioning a shield around you, don’t forget when you in the astrals, there are many people and spirits best to protect yourself.

KNOW your partner, It’s vitally important you have a good feel for your partners energy before you even go to play, how will you connect otherwise? Get to know each other, and if most importantly, if something doesn’t feel right DONT do it.

Also I suggest a very basic 101 in psychic or empath development it is another important aspect to astral play and will strengthen your connection to not just you but your partner as well.

KNOW what you want and make it clear- if you want a sensual time playing you need to find a dom or play partner who can deliver this, if you know someone wants pain play and you don’t like pain they probably aren’t the astral partner for you unless they are also into sensual play and can leave it out.

Keep these tips in mind and you will have a lovely time.
Happy Mind fucking!

What NOT to Ask a Witch

Seriously…Just Don’t

Most witches, wiccans,pagans will love to share their array of knowledge with you.  But please have some respect and common sense.

“So Can You Turn My Ex(Insert Person Here) Into a (Insert animal)”


We get it you’re hurt you want revenge because you want your ex, or whoever hurt you to have a heart and apologize.  My dear this isn’t Hollywood, and to be honest if you come across a witch who claims they can do this, please step far away from them.  Witches don’t seek revenge especially not on a situation that they have nothing to do with.

Most witches, practice spells with herbs, oils, etc, for bettering themselves, or the planet, not for some crazy Hollywood fantasy you wish to come true.

“So…What’s It Like to Perform A Sacrifice?”


While there are a very minor few which do practice this….*vomits*.  Most of us do not.  Our mission is to help not hurt and sacrificing an animal, person, etc.  I live by one single rule whatever I do cannot hurt someone or something in any way, shape or form.  Be careful some witches like sacrifice those who ask that question!

Relax, I’m joking!

“If You’re a Witch How Come You Aren’t Dressed In All Black?”

The most stereotypical question I hear, and if I had a dollar for every time I got asked this, there would be a lot of animals off the street and in happy, forever homes.

I’m a witch, I don’t have a stereotypical look or profile about me.  I wear the most comfy ensembles, and I love wear flowing, light colors, so if you expect me to look like something out of The Adams Family, you got the wrong witch!

Before you decide to ask a witch a question about life please for the love of goddess, ask your self if you would feel offended of someone asked you the same thing.

Love and Light,

The Witchy Bombshell

Talking Tarot

Simple Tips for Beginners

If you asked me a few years ago, I would have sat there and said “me read tarot?  haha no”.

Was I ever wrong!  I want you to understand that I was not always so cheerful or in love with the idea of reading tarot.

Now if you ask me if I love tarot I will probably try to hide all my decks under a rock and deny that I have a major tarot addiction!

We all have to start somewhere and it’s okay if it takes you awhile to get there.

Here’s a few simple tips to get you started on your tarot journey, as a reader.

  • Find a style of deck you resonate with-  This is something I strongly tell any of my clients or anyone for that matter who ask me where to start.  I think knowing what your hobbies are will help you to discover which deck you may connect with.  For myself, I tend to find that I like the decks that have animal totems, powers linked to them, for me these are the decks that I connect to the strongest.
  • Be Open To Spiritual Awakening I wish someone told me just how much I was going to awaken the minute I began reading tarot!  I am happily surprised at just how much abilities I have!  Tarot has also helped me to transform my troubles into blissful alchemy.  I now know that I have the power to react in a situation and I can do so as I see fit, I can also take a negative or unpleasant situation and turn it into something grand!
  • Don’t Get Wrapped Up in the Guide Books–  I know tarot can be a little intimidating at first, especially if you do not know much about cards, the suits, and so on.  With this being said, the guide books are merely there as a guide they are not there to be used a crutch.  So don’t lean back on them too much.
  • Be Patient– No really, be patient.  I know its hard not to when everyone you know who reads tarot is doing amazing but you can’t even figure what the fool is about.  But that’s the amazing thing, everyone learns and interprets the cards differently.  It may take you weeks or months to fully bond with your chosen deck and fully understand,  The language of tarot is much like learning a verbal language.  First you skim through the deck and get a feel for the card vibes.  Next you may read the deck just to develop a deeper understanding, and finally you start awakening to the endless possibilities and messages each card has for you.